I have a viral quote… “Balance is not something you find, it’s something you create” – Jana Kingsford
But my personal favourite quote (that I’m keen to go viral) is:
“Resistance is fear made manifest now.” Jana Kingsford
It’s the clearest explanation I’ve ever found for why we get stopped in our tracks before we even reach the big dream.
Resistance is fear made manifest now.
What you fear about success…
What you fear about actually achieving the big dream…
You will make it manifest before you’ve even achieved it.
It’s a double whammy.
Because if you fear this big dream will make you a bad mum…
You’ll manifest micro experiences of that fear now.
You’ll start acting out tiny scenes from your worst-case scenario.
You haven’t even achieved the dream yet,
but you’re already living micro fears of it.
If you believe the dream is gonna be hard work…guess what?
Resistance will parting-gift you the feeling of success being hard.
It will pre-deliver your fears like a prequel to your dreams.
Because that’s what it does.
This is the truest thing I can tell you about resistance:
If you haven’t achieved the dream yet, but you’re already experiencing the fear of it…
That’s resistance… imagine the best way for your subconscious to keep you safe aka stop you going for your Big Dream!? Manifest micro fears coming true in your pursuit of it.
The roll of resistance is your psyche trying to prepare you.
So you don’t get knocked off your feet.
So you don’t get the wind taken out of you when it gets hard.
It’s giving you time to breathe. To process. To shift.
I teach resistance like this on purpose.
So you don’t think it’s just you.
So you can stay steady through it.
So you can breathe instead of panic.
Because when you name it,
you don’t get stuck in it.
“Fear Made Manifest Now” Workshopping:
What is the worst thing that could happen if your big dream comes true?
Write it down.
Then ask yourself this:
Where is that fear already manifesting in your life right now, before the dream has even come true?
When you see it clearly, you can navigate it powerfully.
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